Reverse Culture Shock
Studies show that reverse culture shock can be a bigger obstacle upon students' return to their home country, than the culture shock they experience leaving home and going to their host country. North Central College students are no exception to the research that support this idea known as 'reverse culture shock.' To combat and support our students, North Central College's Office of International Programs offers a variety of programs, events, and opportunities that assist students in their transition home. To view a list of our Re-Entry Events and Opportunities, please visit the 'Returned Students' section on the study abroad website.
Below you will find the summarized descriptions of the stages of reverse culture shock as well as some of the top ten frustrations we see in our students when they return to the States and NCC. In addition, we provide them with ten re-entry strategies to help them overcome and cope with their reverse culture shock. Similar to culture shock, some students experience little no reverse culture shock, while others strongly experience it. Either way, your son or daughter will be excited to share with your their experiences from abroad! To aid them in their transition, listen closely to their stories and encourage family and friends to ask them specific questions about his/her experience, as opposed to general questions like, 'how was your time in XXX?' Questions like this usually lead to a very short conversation, when what your son/daughter needs is for someone to listen and care.
Stages of Reverse Culture Shock
Stage 1: Disengagement/Departure
While your son/daughter is still overseas, he/she will start thinking about moving back home and moving aware from their experience and friends they acquired abroad.
Stage 2: Euphoria/The Honeymoon
Your son/daughter may be very excited to be back home and you and your family are equally excited to have them back. Your son/daughter has the opportunity to do, eat, see, smell and visit with all of those things he/she missed while they were away from home. You and other friends and family express their pleasure in seeing your son/daughter again and listen politely to his/her stories for a few minutes. After those few minutes, your son/daughter may painfully realize that their friends and family are not particularly interested in their experiences and what happened to him/her abroad.
Stage 3: Alienation
In this stage, your son/daughter experiencex dampened euphoria with feelings of alienation, frustration and anger. Your son/daugher may even feel like an outsider -- a foreigner in his/her own country. Your son/daughter may feel irritated with you and others and impatient with their own ability to do things as well or as quickly as they hoped. Resentment, loneliness, disorientation and even a sense of helplessness may pervade in your son/daughter.
Stage 4: Gradual Readjustment
The fourth stage of re-enty includes a gradual readjustment for your son/daughter back to life at home. It is important for your student to remember that the shock of returning home will eventually dissipate.
Top 10 Re-Entry Frustrations
(faced by most study abroad participants)
2. No one wants to hear about my experiences
3. It's hard to explain.
4. Reverse homesickness
5. Previous relationships have changed.
6. People see the 'wrong' changes.
7. People misunderstand if I adopt elements of my host culture; they misinterpret my behavior.
8. Feelings of alienation; seeing home with new eyes.
9. Inability to apply new knowledge and skills.
10. Fear of losing the experience, like storing it away in a souvenir box that we only occasionally look at.
Top 10 Re-Entry Strategies
(we recommend to our returned study abroad students)
1. Come visit the NCC Office of International Programs. We are travel people, too. We want to see your photos, hear your stories and talk with you about your experiences abroad.
2. Become a Study Abroad Ambassador! Your experiences and perspectives are of great value to students contemplating a study abroad program. Being a Study Abroad Ambassador is a fun way to keep your experience alive by sharing it with others, plus it looks great on a resume. This is a paid position!
3. Participate in all of our NCC re-entry events. Attend the Welcome Back Dinner and Returnee Retreat, mark your calendar for the Re-entry Conference, write an I-Story for our Study Abroad website, and submit your best photos for our Study Abroad Photo Contest!
4. Befriend a newly arrived international student or be a roommate with an international student. You might remember how difficult it was when you first arrived in your host-country and how nice it would have been to have a ‘friend’ available to help. For more information about international student “buddies,” International Club, and International Roommates Program contact the Office of International Programs.
5. Volunteer at any of the Study Abroad Events our office sponsors. We are constantly looking for energetic people to assist at the various events each semester. Most important, our annual Study Abroad Fair in October, and Pre-Departure Orientations in the spring term. These are valuable opportunities for you to share you experiences with interested students, and their parents.
6. Look into the various student clubs and organizations available at NCC, especially the International Club, Japan Club, Asian Student Konnection, International Business Club, Raza Unida, SIFE, etc. The International Club fosters relationships between international students and domestic students interested in “all things international” and promotes cross-cultural understanding across campus and in the community.
7. Share your email address with students interested in studying on the same program or in the same country as you by joining our General Resources List. Interested students love to email questions and hear first hand about overseas experiences. Your tips and insight will be very much appreciated.
8. Make a scrapbook of your travels. Include your memories along side the photos and souvenirs. You will treasure the scrapbook for years to come!
9. Talk to your family, friends and support system.
10. Study Abroad Again! If you have the itch to go abroad again, contact Kimberly Larsson at email@example.com or Whitney Pier firstname.lastname@example.org. North Central College has 50 education abroad opportunities and we are happy to help you explore additional ways to get back overseas! Be a REPEAT OFFENDER!